Fertility Support

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Creating a family can become complicated.
Find support for every part of your journey, here.

Unexplained Infertility

Are you exhausted from unexplained infertility ? Here are some challenges we can work through together:

· Emotional overwhelm from grief, anxiety, and feelings of inadequacy that come with each cycle

· Loss of control and uncertainty about your path to parenthood that leaves you feeling helpless

· Relationship strain affecting intimacy and communication with your partner

· Social isolation and difficulty navigating insensitive interactions that trigger painful emotions

· Physical and mental exhaustion from the constant cycle of hope and disappointment

· Questions about identity and your future when life feels stuck "on hold"

Together, we’ll create a safe, judgment-free space to process these challenges while developing healthy coping strategies for uncertainty.

Pregnancy Loss

Do you carry pregnancy loss grief alone, wondering if anyone truly understands the depth of what you've lost? Together, we can explore:

· Profound grief and heartbreak that can feel isolating when others don't understand

· Anxiety and fear about future pregnancies, wondering if you can emotionally survive another loss

· Physical recovery while processing emotional pain, navigating a body that feels like it betrayed you

· Relationship strain as you and your partner may grieve differently or struggle to support each other

· Social difficulties including insensitive comments, avoiding pregnancy announcements, and feeling invisible in your grief

· Guilt or self-blame, questioning what you did wrong or if you could have prevented the loss

· Loss of identity and dreams for the future, grieving not just a pregnancy but the child and life you imagined

· Difficulty deciding whether and when to try again, feeling paralyzed between hope and fear of more heartbreak

You don't have to navigate this devastating loss alone. Support can help you honor your grief, heal at your own pace, and find a path forward.

Fertility Treatment Burnout

Have you reached the point where you don't even recognize yourself anymore—where every decision feels impossible and you're not sure how much longer you can keep riding this emotional rollercoaster? Are you experiencing…

· Physical depletion from hormone injections, procedures, side effects, and the toll on your body

· Loss of spontaneity and joy as life revolves around treatment schedules, appointments, and two-week waits

· Decision fatigue about whether to continue treatments, try something different, or stop altogether

· Identity confusion when infertility treatment has consumed your life and you've lost touch with who you are beyond this struggle

· Emotional exhaustion from the relentless cycle of hope, treatment, waiting, and disappointment with no end in sight

· Relationship strain when intimacy feels clinical and you're both running on empty emotionally

You don't have to push through this alone until you break. Therapeutic support can help you reconnect with yourself, clarify your path forward, and find meaning beyond the fertility treatment treadmill.

LGBTQIA+ Family Formation

Feeling exhausted from having to fight so hard to become parents—navigating systems that weren't built for you while wondering if your family will ever be fully protected? Together, we can explore…

· Navigating complex to parenthood that require extensive planning, medical intervention, and financial resources

· Grief over not being able to conceive spontaneously as a couple and the loss of genetic connection for one or both partners

· Legal vulnerabilities and the stress of ensuring both partners have recognized parental rights and protections

· Discrimination or insensitivity from medical providers, agencies, or systems that weren't designed with LGBTQIA+ families in mind

· Emotional strain of choosing donors, surrogates, or adoption routes with limited control and lengthy processes

· Relationship pressure when partners disagree about family-building methods or who will carry/provide genetics

· Social isolation or lack of understanding from both straight and LGBTQIA+ communities about your unique journey

· Fear about your future child's safety and acceptance in a world that may not fully embrace your family structure

You deserve support that honors your specific journey and challenges. Therapy can help you navigate these decisions with confidence, strengthen your partnership, and build the family you envision with resilience and joy.

Surrogacy Support

Do you find yourself struggling to balance excitement and anxiety—wanting to bond with your baby while feeling helpless that someone else is carrying your child and your dreams?

· Loss of control over the pregnancy experience while depending entirely on someone else to carry your baby

· Anxiety and hypervigilance about the surrogate's health, choices, and wellbeing throughout the pregnancy

· Complex emotional boundaries navigating the relationship with your surrogate—how involved to be and what's appropriate

· Fear and vulnerability that something could go wrong medically or legally, or that the surrogate might change her mind

· Grief over not experiencing pregnancy yourself and missing milestones like feeling kicks or bonding during gestation

· Financial stress from the significant costs and uncertainty about unexpected expenses along the way

· Social isolation when others don't understand your unique path or make insensitive comments about "real" parenthood

· Emotional exhaustion from managing hope and fear simultaneously while waiting for someone else to bring your child into the world

You don't have to navigate this complex journey alone. Support can help you manage anxiety, set healthy boundaries, and prepare for parenthood with confidence and emotional clarity.

Childless by Choice

Choosing to be childfree isn't simple or linear. It's a courageous & complex transition that involves honoring what you've lost while creating space for what's possible now. We can explore…

· Integrating grief for biological parenthood while building excitement for a different, intentional future

· Handling judgment or misunderstanding from others who don't recognize the strength in choosing your own path

· Redefining and rediscovering passions and priorities beyond creating a family

· Realigning with your partner as you both envision and create your childfree life together

· Working through ambivalence that surfaces periodically, even when you're confident in your decision

· Navigating a child-centric culture and finding your community in a different landscape

· Discovering new sources of purpose, legacy, and fulfillment that align with your values

· Holding space for complex, coexisting emotions—relief, freedom, loss, and hope—as you move forward

Even though you might feel confident one day and uncertain the next, this isn't about settling or giving up—it's about reclaiming your life and building something meaningful on your own terms.

“I was drowning in the infertility process and didn't know how to cope. Heidi helped me work through my grief and anxiety from prior pregnancy losses, figure out what I actually wanted, and communicate better with my partner. Moving forward, I feel more equipped to handle the hard stuff.”

– Former Client

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